“Whatever problem you’re struggling with is probably addressed in some book somewhere written by someone a lot smarter than you.” -Ryan Holiday
Reading isn’t fun when it’s mandatory, but when we shift our perspective on reading from a chore to a personal investment, something clicks.
I’d be lying if I said I haven’t been embarrassed to be “that guy” that sits in the library and reads, but that’s changed over time. Reading is a regular part of my routine, just like sleeping or eating. Books offer a window to perspectives and insights that simply can’t be absorbed in a classroom, on TV, or online.
I promise, once you start you won’t be able to stop, and your life will never be the same. Anyway, here are my top five books to base your life on.
The 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene
The first of five renowned works by Greene, The 48 Laws of Power is the ultimate guide to social intelligence, carving out a path in a hostile world, obtaining power, and defending against it. It’s grounded in a wealth of research spanning three thousand years, and its lessons have influenced millions from multi-platinum artists to Super Bowl champions.
Fun fact: aside from the Bible, The 48 Laws of Power is the most-requested book by prison inmates.
The Obstacle is the Way by Ryan Holiday
At the age of 29, Ryan Holiday’s insight into the human condition is remarkable. The underlying theme of his book is inspired by Stoic philosophy (I know it sounds boring, but it’s refreshingly simple): we don’t always control our circumstances, but we can control how we respond. If you’re demoralized or stuck, this is the blueprint for clarifying your perceptions and ending the pity party. The Obstacle is the Way is a much-needed gem in a culture saturated with self-help gurus.
Fun fact: The Obstacle is the Way was read by the majority of the New England Patriots players and coaches during their 2015 Super Bowl Championship season.
Man’s Search for Meaning by Viktor Frankl
If there’s anyone that can answer the question “What is the meaning of life?” it’s this guy. A psychiatrist and a Holocaust survivor, Frankl wrote this profound book to demonstrate how each person can find a purpose and find meaning even in the direst circumstances. If he could answer these questions while suffering through a concentration camp, I think you can, too.
The Icarus Deception by Seth Godin
Seth Godin is normally associated with his business and marketing skills, but the lessons of this book can and should be applied to every walk of life. Godin challenges us to reconsider the old rules: get a degree, find an institution, land a safe job, and stay in your comfort zone. Instead, Godin argues that our connection economy rewards art, not compliance. Not necessarily fine art, but our own creative work, whatever that may be. If you disdain the 9-5 life, this book is for you.
On the Shortness of Life by Seneca
I’ve never read a philosophy book as applicable to 21st century life as this. Seneca’s advice on wealth, jealously, power, and happiness are as useful today as they were when he was advising his students in Ancient Greece:
“Envy you’ll escape if you haven’t imposed yourself on other people’s notice, if you haven’t flaunted your possessions, if you’ve learned to keep your satisfaction to yourself.”
Don’t expect your typical philosophical text when you read this. It’s short, easy to understand, and will leave you with a deeper appreciation for life after reading it.
I hope these books impact you as much as they impacted me. They are life changing, and will lead you to discover others that are equally compelling.
